I just came across your message and I must say the dilemma your going through is exactly what im going through.
I do have the freedom to find someone myself, but I feel life is too busy with working 5 days a week. I had the perfect chance when i was at uni but all the guys were not the type i would like to marry, but now its a question of how to find the one and where?
Anyway I really hope and pray you find someone inshallah.
exactly, life is too busy and i don't know where or how to look. pakistani, muslim girls aren't allowed to do a lot of things which would make us more available. we're taught all our lives to stay away from guys and then when we're in our 20's our parents secretly wish (some of them anyway) that we've found someone and if we haven't then they find us one. i go to uni too but i haven't even seen one guy who i might be interested in.