So many assumptions … generalizations n judgments …y ou can’t really say if they are rude to their parents they will be rude to others too … they are rude to their parents for some reason which you dont know … what if her parents were not good towards her n she is just taking a stand for herself … may b they did something wrong to her … see thats their family problems on which you cant assess a girl that she will be rude to you too or your parents …
n saying that those gals are rude to their parents n are rebellious who had a crazy past n been involved in sexual activities is BS… you cant make such a huge assumption of someones rudeness to her parents this way … there can be other possible reasons too which makes one rude towards their parents other than sexual BS …
Almost everything in life is based on generalizations and trends including predicting economic markets, making scientific and medical conclusions based on research trends, when candidates are interviewed for school or job they make generalizations of applicants traits that would best fit what theyre looking for, even when we are assessing potential risthas for red flags we are basing it on our own biases and generalizations, etc. Nothing ever fits the model perfectly but can still make conclusions based on majority of observations and trends. Like I said in my post, the conclusions I mentioned are based on my own observations and trends in behavior that I’ve seen in my experience, there will always be exceptions to these trends but that’s a major portion of observations that I’ve seen and hence will come to mind as a red flag when a girl possesses those characteristics. This thread is about assessing the one during ristha process so judgment of one’s character and personality will inherently be involved. There is nothing wrong with generalizations, don’t know why this forum is so against it when all the advice and suggestions given on this anonymous forum to strangers are based on generalizations as well.
how can you jump to such conclusions? … have you experienced anything like that ?. … so you assess a potential rishta by checking her rudeness towards her parents? … n without knowing the reason you already know that she will not respect anyone as she is rude towards her parents n that rudeness is the result of her being rebellious n being sexually active in the past … dont know what kind of gals you hang out with …you are jumping to conclusions, based on your assumptions, without even knowing the gal… dude there will be thousand other reasons for someones rudeness towards her parents other than what you mentioned …
you know what you idealize a lot … you want perfection in gals…
economic predictive models are based on past behavior & trends. there are also entire industries including in marketing just based on consumer behavior and trends (including the targeted ads by Facebook and Google as an example)
Thats a pretty BS way to judge someone. How do you know what her parents are like? Would you rather prefer a girl who is sweet to everyone in front of you, but something else behind your back. Id rather prefer someone who is straight forward.
I have this cousin who divorced his wife, and then had the audacity to say in front of everyone that he will sacrifice 10 more girls for his parents. I was like wth.
I guess I should expand my social circle…