How do guys know if she is the one?

[mickeyminnie]

Re: How do guys know if she is the one?

@pak2015

Almost everything in life is based on generalizations and trends including predicting economic markets, making scientific and medical conclusions based on research trends, when candidates are interviewed for school or job they make generalizations of applicants traits that would best fit what theyre looking for, even when we are assessing potential risthas for red flags we are basing it on our own biases and generalizations, etc. Nothing ever fits the model perfectly but can still make conclusions based on majority of observations and trends. Like I said in my post, the conclusions I mentioned are based on my own observations and trends in behavior that I’ve seen in my experience, there will always be exceptions to these trends but that’s a major portion of observations that I’ve seen and hence will come to mind as a red flag when a girl possesses those characteristics. This thread is about assessing the one during ristha process so judgment of one’s character and personality will inherently be involved. There is nothing wrong with generalizations, don’t know why this forum is so against it when all the advice and suggestions given on this anonymous forum to strangers are based on generalizations as well.

how can you jump to such conclusions? … have you experienced anything like that ?. … so you assess a potential rishta by checking her rudeness towards her parents? … n without knowing the reason you already know that she will not respect anyone as she is rude towards her parents n that rudeness is the result of her being rebellious n being sexually active in the past … dont know what kind of gals you hang out with …you are jumping to conclusions, based on your assumptions, without even knowing the gal… dude there will be thousand other reasons for someones rudeness towards her parents other than what you mentioned …
you know what you idealize a lot … you want perfection in gals…