Re: How do desi girls feel about desi guys marrying others?
My female cousin married a gora. He is not a practicing Christian nor did he ever convert. Her immediate family is right behind her but the distant family members verbally abuse every now and then. Ironically, it’s the same relatives who broke up a 10 year engagement because she didn’t grow up to be ‘fair complexion’ as they had hoped for. 
BTW, the gora hubby is the NICEST person I have ever met in my life. He would beat the nicest Paki by miles. He is so sweet that even I would have married him (if I was a girl)