Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate ...?
Uff! aik to yeh sawaal he ghalat hay... the question should be, how do boys get the courage to initiate when the bride and the groom don't know eachother, or haven't spoken to eachother before their wedding -- aaj kal aisa bohat kam hota hay, and mostly people get engaged or nikkahfied before wedding means rukhsati.. and the guys and girls are quite bold these days they do talk about a lot of things .. *
Simple, and if the guy and the girl are new to eachother and don't know their natures or hesitate a lot before even touching eachother generally.. they should give it a time, may be 1 or 2 weeks and then i think they can be close and talk to eachother etc... why some people ask really stupid questions? Guys have less sharam than girls and this is a natural thing... (commonly seen) and i do agree with what someone here says that guys do watch such movies (not every but their ratio is more than girls if i'm not wrong) they know how to initiate A T L E A S T ! :D don't talk about experience it will turn out to another topic..lol*
