How do boys get the courage to initiate ...?

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Wheneva anyone gets married people tell girls oh .. dont worry all will be okay .. the guy will be more knowledgeable and will handle the rest.

So i always wonder that as new and odd the things are for girls they are equally for the boys as well. So how do the boys muster up the courage to face their wife and initiate the process?

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Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate ...?

It's not that boys have some special stuffs to initiate the process but we all are brought up in a system where males dominate.Thats all.It's all mindset.

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Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate …?

:hmmm:

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Trash yet?

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^lol

I think guys who gather up courage are the ones for whom YOU might be 2nd, 3rd, 4th or maybe 100th =(

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^thats wat i waa thinking too lol

who r u btw a guy or gal? i think its in their system. being more badmash by nature they know how to initiate n then all those blue movie they start watching very young comes handy

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Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate ...?

Initiate what process?

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LOLOL.

My question exactly.

But wait, I think he's talking about intimacy. Well, boys aren't supposed to have the courage. Men are.

Dil ibtda ke liye, jaan inteha ke liye
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Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate …?

A man’s got to do, what a man’s got to do :snooty:

:chai:

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By the way what is ur source on that ... what makes u think the gals r told that???

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Seriously? You had to ask?

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and if it is what gals r usually told ... is it coz ..........
the gals mother or sis whoeva gives her that advise is coz ....
the gal might start followin her innate instincts n the guy might get the idea ..........oh so she know it all ....... may be she has experience with this . ha ha ha.

or may be they r convienced that she s so clumsy she might damage goods ha ha
either ways its stupid ......... no one does that .

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seriously . wht kindda ppl tell the bride ........... ok be a zombie or he might get ideas?? hahaha

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Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate …?

buahahaha :omg: at above. Guys are just more dominant in our society, and hormones play a big role in this as well. And most men have had a glimpse of adult movies if not actually experienced :smiley:

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Funny you should bring this up. My cousin (who lives in Pak)...when she got married her crazy husband did not initiate for the first 1.5 years of marriage, so they in fact did not consumate the marriage for 1.5 years into the marriage. When he finally made the move, she called her mom and told her "ho gaya." Needless to say they were all relieved as they wanted grand kids and she wanted kids. Her husband has issues...

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ok so even if she plays zombie the first night .......... seriously wud the husband like that?? wudnt he want sum kindda initiation/response??
wht wud he think he s married a frighteningly frigid freak?

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Re: How do boys get the courage to initiate ...?

It's not about being frigid. It's about the woman being more into it than him. As with everything else in life, let your man feel like he's in control (whether or not that's true is entirely different story).

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WTH? very unbelievable unless hubby is not normal

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ive heard if nikah does not consumate in 6 months it becomes null n void