How did you take Baby out?

[Faris_Udeen]

Re: How did you take Baby out?

@Decent_6Chora

thread title is very hEEE miss leading I was like eeennnnn yee Faris bhai ko kia ho gaya

Hayaa bhai ik sadey admee ka thum logon ne nichor nichor kar dimag harab kardeeya… jo pehley hee kab se teek tha?

Anyway thankyou everyone for your replies.

@SaadiaB

each bara is saying something else.

Thats part of the damn problem…

@Sahar02

^ I agree, they should be visiting. Unless you don’t want them

That was my initial reaction too but then again I hate politics…

@SaadiaB

I dont know about you guys but my ammi allways says .. that the chila time .. death is very near the mother and the babies .. so thats why both have to be very careful .. take full rest and not over do things. Small walks around the corner for fresh air is ok but going out to long drives to visit relatives is a no no! I don’t know why they would suggest such things. Faris I would recommend read some info online like on babycenter.com to get info about newborns .. and if you have questions ppl here will be most helping.

Thanks Saadia.

@njgal

I thought it was recommended for about 4 weeks. The docs recommend not to take the baby to small enclosed germ prone areas like the indoor mall, play areas. I also avoided noisy loud areas as well but outdoor walks are great. I was really careful with my first one and she was a winter baby. Kept her and myself at home for 6 weeks. With my 2nd one I had her out and about in a few weeks because it was summer time and I was not as neurotic.

That makes a lot of sense… thanks Njgal.

@Niksik

Faris bhai, aap ki title bohut ajeeb si hai How did you take the baby out? Come on, there’s really only 2 ways…C-section or the other way. Yeh bhi koi saval hua bhalaa. ?

Oh no Title ko baaksh do bhena… ik Paindoo admee kee mazaq achee naheen hotee. Okay seriously I did not mean the medical bit… the cubs are fine on that side it was a natural birth Allah ka shukar… I meant about actually taking them out of the home.

I have decided I wont go anywhere for the next couple of weeks at least… I dont care if people say I’m being lazy or hiding or not letting my wife see her realtives or whatever… they rightly should come to us.

@Reha

However, when it comes to visitors they should be coming to you Faris. They should understand your wife is a new mommy and may not be comfortable traveling…especially with multiple babies this early.

Thanks Reha.

I just hate fammily politics so much… you see theres always going to be idiots who will spread baseless rumours and nonesense… lately some have been asking us to visit them but I think if they cared about us they should be the ones to see us… most people have been okay it’s just my Wifes Aunt who is causing the big trouble lately you can guess the story… typical dramabazee desi style.