How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

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Re: How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?

@gudiaali

You are over thinking. Why would they stop you from visiting your parents or any other relative for that matter. i assume from your posts that they are nice people. All you need to do is just let your FIL know that you are leaving to see your parents. Waisey i don’t think FIL s are normally interested to know where DILs are going, just relax.

You will be quiet surprised guddi..quiet surprised. There are parents who would stop DIL to visit her parents. But at the same time, DIL should be able to balance between inlaws and her parents. In the beginning of marriage, it is quiet natural for woman to miss her parents..and i think husband should be reasonable enough to take her to her parents. And the life goes by, things become normal eventually.

Khair i pray OP that may Allah bless you in your marriage. And remember any conflict you may have, try to solve with your husband. Do not involve parents into matters too much after marriage. They just get overly worried. That’s how they would be. They will never change.