Re: How did you guys feel the way I do? How did you move on?
They’re just trying to normalize it for you so you don’t feel like this is something terrible that’s happening. And they’ve also been through this before so realize that life does change - for the better though.
This is very very very normal.
On my rukhsati day, I cried so much my husband’s friend’s son asked out of the blue “uff, ye kitna royengi?” Everyone laughed…but I was a mess and never in a million years would have believe anyone that told me you’ll be fine.
But you will be. This is how things are supposed to be and for good reason.