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oooooh. how dare you be sensible!!
Awaits bombardment of hate
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The more the better :D
yeah as long as instead of bringing in ayaat for dumb tasteless sarcasm, references are pulled out of some dear diary number x page no. xxx
Well I suppose fornication is better than blowing people up?
i think eventually that too will lead to blowing up people
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Meh, anything is possible with Pakistanis.
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I really do not not know about Pakistan, but amongst Pakistanis abroad in North America (especially the ones born here, both guys and girls) its quite higher than what I would have imagined. The girls made sure that their parents did not know they even had boyfriends and the guys quite simply most of them did not care (their parents weren't as concerned about them as they were for their daughters). Some new parents who witnessed all this went back to Pakistan saying 'we have girls, we would much rather have them grow up in Pakistan and then maybe when they are all grown up and married we shall return).** I was working on a project with an African American not too long ago and he asked me where I was originally from and then when I answered he immediately told me about a Pakistani girl he dated in NY and how she wore the veil and snuck out of her house at night to his place and she told him she everything was alright as long as her parents do not find out especially considering the fact that he was black lol**. Again, we should not be judgmental because these kids face have to face two conflicting cultures and have to try and fit into both. And I would not blame the parents because some of them put in a very decent effort to impose an 'Islamic' education to the best of their abilities and resources but still, it's bound to happen.
Hmm.. Pakistani girl getting herself some bbc.
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Meh, anything is possible with Pakistanis.
No i didnt intend to say that in this sense. Though to a certain extent possible, due to aggressive behaviors whether nrp or locals. My point was an immoral act that it is, will also lead to more societal decline.
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Wat decline, as long as no one is physically hurt. Its all fine :halo:
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^really? physically hurt? you dont know my wrath is worst than that of fire spitting pir. I will blow a single fire ball outta my mouth and all the fornicators will be running around like featherless chickens.
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Well I suppose fornication is better than blowing people up?
get well soon dude ...
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This is what my mother who used to be an ob/gyn in pakistan has experienced herself. she has had girls coming to her frequently to get abortions (She never performed any illegal abortions).some of the girls would come wrapped from head to toe in a huge chaadar/dupatta, you would never ever think they could even talk to guys. not just that, but so young unmarried girls many would discuss birth control methods. again i am not saying that majority of girls do this or but it's more common than what alot of people seem to think. what % it is, no one will know.
Having spend most of my teen age in Lahore and studied from punjab university, I can tell one thing with confidence .. that among guys (in pakistan), A girl who is totally covered doesn't have high respect compared to a girl who is bit open .. The reason is not that all guys are pervert or its their mentality .. the reason that 99% of the girls who get indulge into such things try to pose an image that they are the most "seedhi sadhi larki" of the society.
Sorry to be rude/harse and every explicit here but this is very true.
In my personal experience, a girl who comes from defence or any porche society tends to be ultra mod-scod BUT knows her boundaries (a little percentage of them) OR AT LEAST they are pro at hiding their chakker with guys. Or one reason could be that their family are educated enough to talk to them (with trust) that what are your boundaries. However, the girls who comes from mediocre families have this peer-pressure, suppressed by community and god knows what else .. that they just lose themselves. Family don't discuss these things because its such a taboo and end result is pretty messed up situation.
I am not pin pointing girls here .. .. guys are 10 steps ahead of this situation but no one would raise a finger on their character once they are married ...
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high time people should stop acting like know-it-alls
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^
You can always disagree with them and present your counter arguments.
Re: How Common is Fornication Among Pakistanis
^
You can always disagree with them and present your counter arguments.
that would be too mature.