People boink each other left and right back home, only you never find out.
But everybody on GS says they're doing it, so it must be true.
Ofcourse unless you want the wrath of Pir X2. I am so scared he has already asked some imp question after your post. What if he discloses the truth. Oh Pakistan!
I think it is between 15% to 20%. I personally know many cases (not based on rumors but reality) in my friends circle, family and in the village. Usually if a girl says she's done it then believe that shyte is real but when a guy says he's done it then give him benefit of the doubt.
As a guy I can understand men's perspective on this, it can be about thrill, bragging about being a man, getting rid of frustration/tension or personal satisfaction of achieving something. Very seldom its about love and with the intention of marrying the girl afterwards. A guy easily escapes the blame and hardly pays the price of fornicating before the marriage in our society. Families will usually keep quiet or will put the blame on the girl whereas other male friends, cousins will start to envy him.
But what a girl gets out of this encounter? She knows she will pay a heavy price as compared to the guy in our society, her family may ground her, her social circle may call her names and look down upon her and future married life becomes very uncertain. So is it about the money (for sex workers Yes but for the next door girl?) status of the guy? the thrill? the love or they need to release tension like guys need to do without thinking about consequences?
I think it is between 15% to 20%. I personally know many cases (not based on rumors but reality) in my friends circle, family and in the village. Usually if a girl says she's done it then believe that shyte is real but when a guy says he's done it then give him benefit of the doubt.
As a guy I can understand men's perspective on this, it can be about thrill, bragging about being a man, getting rid of frustration/tension or personal satisfaction of achieving something. Very seldom its about love and with the intention of marrying the girl afterwards. A guy easily escapes the blame and hardly pays the price of fornicating before the marriage in our society. Families will usually keep quiet or will put the blame on the girl whereas other male friends, cousins will start to envy him.
But what a girl gets out of this encounter? She knows she will pay a heavy price as compared to the guy in our society, her family may ground her, her social circle may call her names and look down upon her and future married life becomes very uncertain. So is it about the money (for sex workers Yes but for the next door girl?) status of the guy? the thrill? the love or they need to release tension like guys need to do without thinking about consequences?
Enjoyment? Or she loves the guy and wants to take the relationship to that next level? Those consequences obviously only happen if the parents and others who disapprove find out..
I'd say about 30%...in the West its more openly acknowledged and in other places...its not exactly respectable to be indulging in such acts so its not disclosed.
Women and men...not just one gender engage in pre-marital sex everywhere.
I don't know anyone personally, but over the years it's trickled down from stories heard from relatives who were midwives, LHV or lady health visitors appointed by the government. So these ladies were authorized to do DNCs as well in case it was required in miscarriages. Anyway these ladies are now sick in the head because according to what they seem to believe is that everyone is basically doing it. Like it could be anyone and they could now always believe that yes this person is capable of fornication no matter how seedha saadha or bholi bhali. I think this aunty had like ppl knocking at her door day in day out to do these under the table abortions. Parents, relatives and bfs bringing in the girls to have the procedure done. So according to those things that I've heard I think it's more common than we think but ppl don't talk about it. Anyway that's still better than bragging about it.