How Common is Fornication Among Pakistanis

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Re: How Common is Fornication Among Pakistanis

@bella88

This is what my mother who used to be an ob/gyn in pakistan has experienced herself. she has had girls coming to her frequently to get abortions (She never performed any illegal abortions).some of the girls would come wrapped from head to toe in a huge chaadar/dupatta, you would never ever think they could even talk to guys. not just that, but so young unmarried girls many would discuss birth control methods. again i am not saying that majority of girls do this or but it’s more common than what alot of people seem to think. what % it is, no one will know.

Having spend most of my teen age in Lahore and studied from punjab university, I can tell one thing with confidence .. that among guys (in pakistan), A girl who is totally covered doesn’t have high respect compared to a girl who is bit open .. The reason is not that all guys are pervert or its their mentality .. the reason that 99% of the girls who get indulge into such things try to pose an image that they are the most “seedhi sadhi larki” of the society.

Sorry to be rude/harse and every explicit here but this is very true.

In my personal experience, a girl who comes from defence or any porche society tends to be ultra mod-scod BUT knows her boundaries (a little percentage of them) OR AT LEAST they are pro at hiding their chakker with guys. Or one reason could be that their family are educated enough to talk to them (with trust) that what are your boundaries. However, the girls who comes from mediocre families have this peer-pressure, suppressed by community and god knows what else .. that they just lose themselves. Family don’t discuss these things because its such a taboo and end result is pretty messed up situation.

I am not pin pointing girls here .. .. guys are 10 steps ahead of this situation but no one would raise a finger on their character once they are married …