lahori
- Just because there are educated, single desi girls who are having difficulty finding a match..are u saying we should settle for whatever aira gaira comes along?? Thus being grateful that some man is giving us the time of day? Please, spare me.
I have to agree with one of the other posters who mentioned parents pushing their kids to study, so that they end up with a good match. I know that personally, i want my husband to have a great education..if i can do it..why cant he??? Aside from being educated, if his character is crap, i wouldnt go near him..i am looking for the whole packageā¦that is hard to find. I understand one has to compromise here and there..but i find it hard to see a successful Dr (female) settling down with a truck driver or whatever. I think its important that there be equality in a marriage..and similarities in as many levels as possible..otherwise resentment can breed.
As for ppl being douchebagsā¦thats anyone..with or without a degree.
BTW u should drop this attitude of generalizing desi or brown girls as goldiggers..i think u have issues because of ur attitude.
Either get educated urself, or find someone who has equal education to u..it seems to me alot of girls have rejected u for alot of other reasons than ur education.
just my point of view..so chill