How Come Parents live without their kids

[Lusi]

Re: How Come Parents live without their kids

@FairysAngel

Yeah I’m married.

I read carefully what you said. Step-parents and divorce are not my POV. Let me tell you what was is in my mind.

Divorce due to any reason occured within a short period is understood but those divorces which held after many years where couples have one or more than one kid suddenly can’t live together anymore and would like to get divorce because of whatever reasons. That reason I think is ‘selfishness’ where one of both or both just think about ‘I’, like:

I can’t live with him due to this
I can’t live with her due to that.

When ‘I’ occured than couples only think about their egoism and in importuniy of winning guardianship case of the kidz, they do whatever is best in their interest. They just love themselves more than anything otherwise if they still love each others, especially the kidz, surely they’ll sit down and start talking all over again and try to find out the reason which cause them to reach at this point, but they don’t.

Hope you got my point.

I know someone very close who got divorce 13 years after living together. The husband threw the wife and 2 daughters out of the house at night. That is when she decided, it is time to move on. The daughters are still in contact with the father. All of them are doing much better now. Also, now when the parents are separate, the girls have somewhat a better relationship with the father then what they had when the parents were together.