One of my cousin is getting married this winter, her lttel sister is a littel to close with her jija ji, it is a love marriage because both plp knew eachother through family friends and i guess sometimes her littel sister played a part in helping them meet or talk on the phone, but last time i was in Pak i notice that she was always hanging out with her jijo at any gathering they would find alone corners to sit, they had stupid signs for eachother like one would clear there throat and the other would do it as well…you got the picture question is is it cool for salies to be that close with there jijas…?
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so they share jokes? no big deal
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I think you're reading too much into things.
One of my cousin is getting married this winter, her lttel sister is a littel to close with her jija ji, it is a love marriage because both plp knew eachother through family friends and i guess sometimes her littel sister played a part in helping them meet or talk on the phone, but last time i was in Pak i notice that she was always hanging out with her jijo at any gathering they would find alone corners to sit, they had stupid signs for eachother like one would clear there throat and the other would do it as well......you got the picture question is is it cool for salies to be that close with there jijas...?
That means something is going wrong.....Its not good.
Close with jijo not at all. In Islam there is parda for jijo and sali for security reason.
Too badddddddd.
I saw that senario like signs in between 2 cousins. They even don't care about the ppl around them noticing. They are like baysharam ppl. Jub aap nain noti kia to bohat say logon nain note kia ho ga.
Allah maaf karay.
That means something is going wrong.....Its not good.
Close with jijo not at all. In Islam there is parda for jijo and sali for security reason.
Too badddddddd.
I saw that senario like signs in between 2 cousins. They even don't care about the ppl around them noticing. They are like baysharam ppl. Jub aap nain noti kia to bohat say logon nain note kia ho ga.
Allah maaf karay.
agreeeeeeed
agreeeeeeed
Everyone would agree as I've seen that senario. Qareebi logon main ho raha hai so I try to stay away from them. Otherwise I can't stop preaching them about gunah and sawab and stoping them. Baning Zalim samaj.
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its nice to be friends with JIJO, but one HAS to maintain certain limits.... rishtay buhat nazuk hotay hein kuch :)
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What does jija ji mean? My urdu isnt that good. Thanks.
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shab-e-firaq](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/shab-e-firaq.html):
what about the jija ji ki wife,.. does she know everything when they hang out n stuff??
does she mind it or something,..??
abhi shayad itni problem nah,.. problem tu aksar shaadi ki baad hothi hai.
let me tell u a short story,.. I knew I married couple (now moved 2 uk).
Aunty was a good friend with my mum and her younger sister was a good friend with me.
The younger sister yani sali jee had a affair with her jija and they had 6 n everything but chupke se.
When the sali ji ki shaadi hui she didnt wanted 2 have the suhag raat with her hubby and they got divorced. sali jee is still unmarried.
But the couple uncle (jija ji) and aunty (sali jees sister) is still together and got 3 kids together. aunty didnt believe this **** so there shaadi life is still going on,.
who knows maybe the jija jee still have 6 with sali jee..
waqt ka kuch patha nahi chalta, time time ke saath wife, husbund, sali, jija,.. saab badal jathay hai.
What do you mean by 6???
Kids???
Wife must be too fool or some family doesn’t mind.
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my jijo is frank with me too and i respect him like i respect my elder brother but even besides that i avoid being way too frank.it might be fine to u but it might not look nice to someone other than u .so y let others have the chance to point u out.So a distance is better
What do you mean by 6???? .. (sexual intercourse) :p
Kids??? the couple got 3 kids together today
Wife must be too fool or some family doesn't mind.
yup big fool
my jijo is frank with me too and i respect him like i respect my elder brother but even besides that i avoid being way too frank.it might be fine to u but it might not look nice to someone other than u .so y let others have the chance to point u out.So a distance is better
I agree... at home or in front of family its allright, but in front of ppl we have 2 be careful.
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Its better to stay away from jija...........Once i hear one jija was use to do gunday mazaq with her saliess at home. His wife was simpl but too bueautiful and he was just opposite of her and whet he did he married to another badsoorat girl and kicked her beautiful sharief and naik biwiw out and gave divorce.
What does jija ji mean? My urdu isnt that good. Thanks.
Sister's husband.
That means something is going wrong.....Its not good.
Close with jijo not at all. In Islam there is parda for jijo and sali for security reason.
Too badddddddd.
I saw that senario like signs in between 2 cousins. They even don't care about the ppl around them noticing. They are like baysharam ppl. Jub aap nain noti kia to bohat say logon nain note kia ho ga.
Allah maaf karay.
:)
v common thing going on these days , in the shadow of friendship , kafi haath saaf ho rahay hain ;-)
good for sali and jijo :p
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sali adhey ghar wali ..
I believe that yes there should be a good rapport with the sali and mian jee but there should be certain limits. For instance, we are all cousins and my sisters know him. We have been talking to each other and they too and grown up together. So obviously my sisters will know him really well. I do not mind. I know my sisters and i know him.
One of my cousin is getting married this winter, her lttel sister is a littel to close with her jija ji, it is a love marriage because both plp knew eachother through family friends and i guess sometimes her littel sister played a part in helping them meet or talk on the phone, but last time i was in Pak i notice that she was always hanging out with her jijo at any gathering they would find alone corners to sit, they had stupid signs for eachother like one would clear there throat and the other would do it as well......you got the picture question is is it cool for salies to be that close with there jijas...?
aap ko keya problem hai? aap keyun 007 baney un ko track ker rahey/rahee hain k wo kis corner main baithey hain? :)
waisey, If we all follow Islam properly, gup-shup ka thread opening rate khud ba khud hee 10% per aa jayee ga as we have answers to all these question in quran and hadees. If you go by book, Sali is NA-MEHRAM so she should not come in front of jija. You also look like Na-Mehram to that SALI or JIJA, so you should not follow them too :)
aap ko keya problem hai? aap keyun 007 baney un ko track ker rahey/rahee hain k wo kis corner main baithey hain? :)
waisey, If we all follow Islam properly, gup-shup ka thread opening rate khud ba khud hee 10% per aa jayee ga as we have answers to all these question in quran and hadees. If you go by book, Sali is NA-MEHRAM so she should not come in front of jija. You also look like Na-Mehram to that SALI or JIJA, so you should not follow them too :)
actuely i am not even that close more like an outsider when i am in pak so i was not following them there actions were kind of awkward thats all also plz let me decide what is right or wrong for me i will not be taking your advise seriously since we are on a sort of chatting network so keep the preaching for where it might be taken seriously for exampel in a mosque or islami gathering but thatks for the insight
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don’t have a sister. problem solved 