Re: How children ruin your wedding day…
Over here how it is done is not everyone is given the same invitation cards. Some are for couples only and some are the whole family. It is a set standard and it is done like this almost in all of the desi community. There are couples only but some full families. Usually the ones that want the whole family to come they would personally go to their house and deliver the invitation card and invite the whole family verbally and also on the card it would say for example, Mr. & Mrs. Suhail Yaqub and then with pen it would say family. After that it would say Aisha, Huda etc etc.. This is how it is done here. There are hardly young kids present at weddings, especially the reception. At the dholki, which is usually done at home and the mehndi the kids are there but reception no kids. Oh by the way over here there is a seperate card for mehndi, dholki, reception and baraat. So not all people that were there on the mehndi would be there on baraat and so on.
Young kids as in toddlers and infants. The babies are always there:blush: and becharay do not make such a chaos and mess compared to the others.