Re: How children ruin your wedding day...
^In Pakistan, they write, 'Mr. and Mrs. Khan only'. Those who want to invite the family add, 'and family' at the end. I think that's a smart way of doing it.
^ Exactly! My siblings and I are all in our twenties. And if my mom receives a wedding invitation card that does not say "and family"....then the rest of the family stays home....and only my parents go. Even though we're old enough not to behave like little kids.....but it's good to try and follow the instructions on the invitation card.