Re: How can someone be so dheet?
Stand your ground!! If you stay adamant your parents will give in eventually...
You need to have a proper sit down with your parents and make them see things from your point of view.
Before you sit down with them, put down on paper all the things/points you want to say/make.
Start off by tellling them that you love and respect them and that you are greatful for them in helping you find a rishta for you... BUT.... and then reel off your items from your list.
Make it clear that you will BY NO MEANS EVER be happy with him, he does he want me to be happy nor does he have the capability to make me happy. And if I'm not happy in my marriage, is that what you wnt for your daughter?!!..
You really have to pull at the heart strings and make them empathise with you. The sooner you achieve this, the sooner they will back down and you will be rid of that annoying little runt!!