How can someone be so dheet?

Re: How can someone be so dheet?

^Ashy’s made a great point. He’s already showing you his ego (by saying that it’s “your problem”) after you turned him down and EVEN after you gave him a condition/compromise…so it’s likely to get worse after the wedding.

About telling the parents? Hmmm…if she tells them, they may cover up for her mistake by telling the cousin that their daugther was shy/kidding around/etc…and they may become MORE strict with her…as in not allowing her to make necessary contacts to get herself out of this mess, watching her every move, restricting her from leaving the house (who knows?).

I’m thinking that NOW she needs to go behind her parents’ backs and call up her cousin’s parents…and tell them that she doesn’t want to marry their son. So far, we only know that her parents and cousin are adamant about his marriage. But we don’t know if the guy’s parents might be more reasonable. So, she should talk to his parents first…and then perhaps an elder from theh family who can reason on her behalf. US KE BAAD…she should tell her parents what she’s done.