How can she make sure he isn't a cheat..

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Re: How can she make sure he isn’t a cheat..

@pinkyy

So, my best friend recently registered on shaadi.com,and there she met a guy living in the same city as of hers.**After a couple of days of chatting with him,she met him in a mall for 10-15 mins,and after that meeting,he right away messaged her,saying he loves her & wants to marry her.**So,after that,he told her he would like to marry after 6 months,and move to another country,but he hasn’t involved his parents yet because according to him,they are currently in Pakistan and would come back from there after 4 months,and so,then only his parents would come to her place with the proposal.Currently he wants her to make him meet her brother so that her brother would be aware of him that he wants to marry his sister.Moreover he keeps asking her to meet him frequently so that they both can get to know each other better,and that’s what making her scared.She thinks perhaps in the name of marriage,he is trying to ‘use’ her?
What do you people think? Should she give him a chance by being in touch with him or is he one of the fraud types who may disappear at the end?

Don’t you think.. she should have waited for few weeks before meeting him.. isn’t it too early to meet a guy after few chats…

IMO she should wait for his parents. If he really wanna know about her they can talk on phone… Don’t meet this guy before he send his parents to her home or call them.

Normally desparate guys (for finding just gf) are on matrimonial sites as well.. they just talk to girls.. become bf type of thing and at the end of the day they say… “oh mery parents nahin maan rahy i am so sorry”. So be careful.