So, my best friend recently registered on shaadi.com,and there she met a guy living in the same city as of hers.After a couple of days of chatting with him,she met him in a mall for 10-15 mins,and after that meeting,he right away messaged her,saying he loves her & wants to marry her.So,after that,he told her he would like to marry after 6 months,and move to another country,but he hasn’t involved his parents yet because according to him,they are currently in Pakistan and would come back from there after 4 months,and so,then only his parents would come to her place with the proposal.Currently he wants her to make him meet her brother so that her brother would be aware of him that he wants to marry his sister.Moreover he keeps asking her to meet him frequently so that they both can get to know each other better,and that’s what making her scared.She thinks perhaps in the name of marriage,he is trying to ‘use’ her?
What do you people think? Should she give him a chance by being in touch with him or is he one of the fraud types who may disappear at the end?
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Sounds a bit too keen tbh.
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Well you...actually your best friend has met him personally once, so now I think it would be safer to get to know each other better on the phone only. Only after formal engagement I think she should start meeting him personally.
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Can't the girl tell from his body language etc if he's a keeper or not?
I mean where are all the girls with good judgement skills?
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BS! this GUY is deffo a CHEAT! stay away from him at any cost...everything you told here about him is so fishy. he is after something which i dunno but i can assure you he is NOT sincere to marry her one bit!
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I bet you do. 
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hes a fraud
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,she met him in a mall for 10-15 mins,and after that meeting,he right away messaged her,saying he loves her & wants to marry her
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seems like the case of "hello hi, I love you bye"
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So a girl used the term “used”…where are my feminazi friends??
That guy is a loony if not a cheat… get rid ASAP.
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no opinion can be made on the basis of such limited information.
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^ but 9 posters have already done that.
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that holds for every single thread ever created here 
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I thought there was supected cheating, and I was going to advise a honey trap.....lol. I think the correct term is fraudster?
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Yes he is after one thing only. If he serious , he can ask his parents to call your parents from Pakistan. There is no excuse to not do so.
He should not be insisting on meeting , he can get to know you via phone , emails etc before the rishta is formalized.
Re: How can she make sure he isn't a cheat..
So, my best friend recently registered on shaadi.com,and there she met a guy living in the same city as of hers.After a couple of days of chatting with him,she met him in a mall for 10-15 mins,and after that meeting,he right away messaged her,saying he loves her & wants to marry her.So,after that,he told her he would like to marry after 6 months,and move to another country,but he hasn't involved his parents yet because according to him,they are currently in Pakistan and would come back from there after 4 months,and so,then only his parents would come to her place with the proposal.Currently he wants her to make him meet her brother so that her brother would be aware of him that he wants to marry his sister.Moreover he keeps asking her to meet him frequently so that they both can get to know each other better,and that's what making her scared.She thinks perhaps in the name of marriage,he is trying to 'use' her? What do you people think? Should she give him a chance by being in touch with him or is he one of the fraud types who may disappear at the end?
he cannot use her unless she goes out of her senses...whether this guy is good or not allah knows...but what i can see from ur post is that he isnot since meeting up frequently to get to know each other has no harm.
your friend needs to decide if she is really really serious about him if yes then tell her to introduce him to her brother and parents (tell them if they are not in country)...get their opinion.
she can surely meet him in rest, mall...public places which are safe and whenever she goes she should tell someone like her bro that i meeting him at falana falana place.
couple of meetings should be able to tell her if he is good or not.
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no one suggested stalking his fb yet? i thought that was the new trend in life1
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you should not involve with that guy.
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Agree totally with Mirch.
Parents can call from anywhere in the world.
And what's the hurry? Can't it wait until the parents have returned?
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Your friend and him, both seem nerds.
After couple of days meeting she went ahead and met him.
He falls in love with him.
She is so serious she is concerned about him using her and has no thought of being able to stop that. I mean why worry about him using her if she is not gonna meet him privately? Is there any chance of that happening?
Above all, where are her parents or elders in her family? Doesn’t she have other (better) ways to find a rishta?
This situation is perfect example of some girls who first go online, meet someone after couple of days of chatting and then get ‘scared’ about being ‘used’ by men. And when they get used by their own fault, they say they were trusting the guy. 
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It reminds me of a joke :
A guy asked an older looking person sitting beside him " What is the time , sir."
The old guy said I am not going to tell you what time it is
The young guy said why .
Old guy said because once I tell you time , you will ask me where did I buy this watch from I will tell you that I bought this from Switzerland . Then you will ask me why did I go to Switzerland , when I tell you I went there on vacation with my family . Then you will ask me how many kids I have when I will tell you two one boy and a girl. Then you will ask me how old are they when I will tell you boy is 15 and girl is 25 . Then you will ask me is your daughter married and I will tell you no , then you will ask me her hand in the marriage . But how can I marry my daughter to a guy who does not even own a wrist watch.
Now do not ask me how this joke is relevant to what you said and what op is asking. I leave it to you.
, If you do not find any relevance then just assume that I wanted to tell a lame joke on a lame situational question.