Re: How can people here support free mixing?
Everyone sets there own borderline of morality, as close as they can to what they believe is right. They justify all other transgressions in their head to make themselves feel ok about what they’re doing. For eg my level of hijab might just be a loose fitting shirt long enough to cover my hips and a scarf on my head, shoulders chest etc. now for someone else who does the full ninja hijab mine might seem practically useless. But to me, someone else with a short, somewhat fitted shirt and a loosely tied scarf might seem useless. The point is everyone has their own way of putting it in perspective according to their personal belief system.
Same way, for u morality lies in not mixing freely with members of the opposite sex in person. But u opt to do it online here. U justify to urself that this doesn’t count (although technically it does, since it’s not required of u, and we r literally doing “gupshup” here). Now to u, the rest of us who r freely discussing everything are the ones crossing the line. But to someone following the rules to the tee, even u fall into that category since ur in here with us, so it’s all the same. Get it? So when u ask “how can u ppl support free mixing”… This is how. Everyone justifies their actions to themselves and thinks they’re doing somewhat ok on the morality forefront. Now if u joined solely for the religion section but ended up in all the intriguing mil threads and them just had to click on the fornication thread, that’s ur transgression on what u had planned to do on this website but couldn’t stay within the limits (of the religion section or the current affairs… Whatever). Point is we all do it, everyone just has different levels and different limits. So we really actually can’t judge anyone else, cuz we’ve all been there done that (something or the other). Same ppl different sin. This is what I learnt from my husband, after any haw haye-ing that I might have done in any of my discussions with him about general stuff.