Well everyone has pretty much given u great advice, but illl still chuck in my stuff as im born in aussie as well:P Welll just to tell ya i wear shalwar kameez as well i NEVER wear western clothes unless im of course going to uni. In fact i perfer kurry clothes i feel extremely uncomfortable in western clothes as im tall hence i tend to look retartly tall when i do wear western clothes.
Well the point that im tryna make is that i dont feel paindoo at all!!!I even go shopping in shalwar kameez!!! I dont wear makeup either unless im going to a social gathering. And like u said ur hair is layered well i dont even have layered hair yet i still dont feel paindoo, in fact ive had heaps of aussies complimenting me with the way i dress.Speaking of paindoo has anyone pinpointed u in the way u dress???
If not, ireckon ur extremely paranoid. You need to be confident about the way look and dont give the damn about what everyone else looks comparing to you. So my advice to u is that u dont need to change anything in the way you dress, but what u do need to change isthe way u perceive yourself. If you think its the shalwar kamiz that makes u look paindoo well thats just shows the lack of respect u have towards our culture(sorry if it sounds harsh)but i srsly reckon that shalwar kamiz is one of the most elegant and sexiest form of clothing!!!