how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

I don’t know how it happens, people always seem to know who I’ve got a crush on, and it really embarrasses me. The first time people noticed I had a crush on someone, which is a while now, I tried so hard to be less obvious, just so people wont joke about it, or talk about it behind my back. But nothing seems to work. I know I shouldn’t be bothered about what other people think, but I can’t help it. It’s even more embarrassing when the girl I have a crush on doesn’t feel the same way, yet I never seem to get over them until I have a crush on someone else.

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

I bet you get googly eyes when your crush is there or you act like a lovesick puppy in their presence

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

lol
I am sorry but dude you are funny. hehe
I so want to see you infront of a girl you have crush on. lol

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

@ ask99: i am damn impressed at your accurate insight about me!
@ knockout_artist: how am i amusing to you? well i do not think that is ever happening lol

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

I don't know man just imagining some one trying not to be obvious YET being very obvious is funny. lol

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

@ knockout_artist: i try not to be so obvious but they always get it. have you had any troubles masking your affections and feelings?

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

I don't show my emotions.
May be you need to watch boxing tapes. Watch closely when a boxer gets hit, in side he is hurt, but he doesn't show it.
He keeps doing his job in normal manner.

BTW i think your situation is beautiful , I mean you like some one and people could tell. Thats kind of sweet.
But only IF you do it once or twice in life time!!!

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

wats wrong if ppl know bout ur crushes???:aq:

i think its ok no big deal

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

it is a big deal for me and also the girl gets embarrassed when she finds out i like her and then people start teasing her and they say oh see agent p likes you etc

i do not want the girl to be in any way embarrassed by me.

knockout are you for real a boxer?

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

yes back in the days.

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

so what are you doing these days?

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

instead i use my brain to make living.
lol left over brain , I should say.

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

well as long as you are making a living. the boxing this sounds very appealing to me for some reason lol

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

lets get back to crushes , shall we ?
lol
how often that happen?

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

what? me getting crushed by someone, pretty often! me crushing on someone not that often!

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

Agent: I think the next time your crush goes past, don’t look at her at all. This might help :cb:

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

i cannot help but look at her MKD, she is really very pretty!

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

Tell her how you feel

Agent P, you and i are so in the same pool. I also have another thread on a similar topic. I also dont know how come but i make it obvious. I dont like it when people relate me or the guy even jokingly..it gives very odd situations many times. I mean when he is around ill be all uneasy because of other people who have been joking about it. Every action, normal or extreme seems one step ahead. Especially in work places,it really does make a difference at least here as to who is hanging around with who. People are always keen in relating people and declaring their scene to other people behind their back which may not be the case at all.
In such matters, we should be careful. I agree with mama ki dua, thats what i do .. i do not dare look when some one else is near me because at the back end i know they are noticing my actions. I totally ignore the crush so as to make it obvious but still nevertheless i sometimes come across as making it obvious too. :blush:

Re: how can i learn to stop being so obvious about my crushes?

MKD i cannot tell her how i feel, for those people who want to know in depth detail about my quest for her can read my blog.

AbraCadabra so you are a girl! Oh yeah it is not only awkward for you girls it is awkward for us guys too! Other guys and friends also have a habit of teasing you whenever you see her or she is mentioned. I hate it whenever we are walking and she walks by and then my guy friends are like oh look Agent P there she goes and start to make noises and all that. I agree people are definitely keen on making connections and relate people to other people and i do not like it. In these kinds of situations the girl is the one who gets embarrassed the most.