Re: How can I be like Mr Fraudia ?
Fraudia Sir, Your above post makes a lot of sense (like always, if I might add).
I hope you did not take my first post personally (though I am not sure how else you could have taken it !). As I said before, I have been lurking around GS for a long time and from reading your posts I have often wondered how meticulous you appear to be in different life situations. Though I would admit, I might have stepped over the line in trying to spice up my post a little bit.
I am an eternal pessimist myself (as the *Cricketnama *guys would know) and a nihilist in many ways - I marvel at people like yourself who seem to maintain such consistently upbeat and positive outlook towards life. Your travails with regards to the birth of your twins is well-documented here. Life does throw some curve balls at times, and I am glad you took it in your stride.
Your following lines pretty much sums it all :
Life is not fair, it will not be fair, you can not make it fair, you have to do the best you can knowing that it is unfair.
I only wish I had realized it earlier than I did. Would have saved me a lot of cribbing, whining and resulting depression.
In conclusion, I will only say this...*...May the force be with you !!
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