How a man is supposed to deal with a female adversary

third_string · March 20, 2018, 11:16pm

Re: How a man is supposed to deal with a female adversary

In real life situations, people don’t see who is right or who is wrong. They see who is powerful and what’s in it for them. Once they’ve made that assessment, they side with the powerful. When I was new in the US, I encountered this woman who was extremely abusive with me but since she was privileged and well-connected, nobody made a whiff even though I kept explaining how it was none of my fault. And many people knew that but stayed silent. Basically it happened when someone took me along to this party on Eid. I reconfirmed ahead of time with another family who told me it will be alright. But this lady there kept telling me that I was not invited and I kept explaining how it was not my fault and apologized several times. The guy who took me along and the other family stayed silent the whole time. I learned a big unforgettable lesson that day.

Did she not like you?