How a desi views goras.

[Maham]

@Mamaof3

From personal experience, I’ve seen that desis are indeed more hospitable. Do they LIKE it? For the most part - no. But it earns them rights to future favors/hospitality of others yeah? Also, the cultural aspects have to be considered here. In Pak, life is slow and easy. Lots of servants, lots of extended family around, lots less working hours for those who work, there are private bathrooms in guest rooms. As opposed to life in USA where 24 hours in a day is never enough, there is usually just wife to take care of house and home and guests, she may have to work too because cost of living is very high, houses are tiny and bathroom is shared by all. In THAT case, would you want a houseful of guests for weeks (which you can barely afford)?

Before you pass judgement, you should live both sides of the coin for a while.

Woho…now thats just your perspective of looking at things…or maybe the kind of people you are associated with have been like that. BUT I bet most desi do not do this hoping to have earned for them a future favor :halo:. If that was the case than i bet the goras would be doing that often.

Again, i dont know which part of pakistan u have lived in or if u have lived here at all cuz life here is not as easy as you think. Yes there are servants but its damn hard to manage them 2…unlike abroad houses here are very big and hard to manage. So that becomes an issue too and plus unlike abroad here there are severe cases of poverty but even those people are welcoming to their guests unlike goras so ya its not about the money!!!

I have lived part of my life in Canada so i think i have a good enough idea about how things work there. Thank-you!