Reha
December 30, 2011, 5:03pm
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Re: housewifes pay
Thanks guys, I have had a talk with my dad a few times before and it is no help, so I no longer bring it up anymore as it only causes more issues. I don’t want to bother with my brother, he has a wife to take care of, and if he really doesn’t realize it after seeing her situation all these years than I’m afraid my talk will only add bitterness. Giving mom the idea of earning money is pointless, I’ve suggested it before and she wasn’t too keen on it, shes busy with house chores all day, and I felt that she felt a little demeaned that she has to do all that to earn money when her husband and son have a decent earning, and honestly, she doesn’t care for the money, at-least not anymore. Its the fact that she should be taken care of regardless of her asking/wanting, with dignity . I think I’ve given up on the men of my house, once I get a decent job I will give her an allowance, my sisters do shower her with presents and stuff already. I just hope and pray that my dad and brother realize that she is very important and her needs/wants should be respected and taken care of.
I can understand.
I think someone does need to deliver a few lessons though because she shouldn’t feel bad about asking for money for her medications. That is her right. Your brother/father should be on top of that.