Nope my dear , dont be lost , let me explain , the first months before and after the wedding are really stressful .. coz one is moving amongst new people and you gotta be able to give them time and attention … ultimately you get to know them and it becomes easy to manage …
Family is still priority like i said …
anyways, one other thing, I dont know why highly experienced and qualified ladies feel guilty leaving their careers behind … or taking a break .. coz I always thought , education , is not just to earn money … its actually a tool that enables a women to make proper, calculated decisions in life .. it helps her look at life a totally different way and raise a family in a much better way.
My education is actually helping me understand the married life alot more .. and tomorrow inshallah when i have kids , I know that I will be able to groom them in a much capable manner as compared to my cousins in pakistan who didnt get the opportunity to complete their education.