Re: House wives
now isn't the city doomed, mr.anil khan doesn't think much of it : p
I feel a lot of people think a woman only works for financial reasons. They don't realize that most women, if not most then atleast a good percentage of them work for reasons other than the money.
In life there are always phases when one thing is more important than the rest. You want it the most and concentrate all your energies into attaining it. It could be love, work, spiritual contentment, to be a better human being, to give in order to heal others and yourself, to make a lot of money, to give a lot of charity and anything else besides. One of my aunts who was a German, an interior designer and who was doing pretty decently in terms of money just left it all one day to go to Afghanistan and work as a relief worker. She was there for a whole three years. And now she's happily married to my uncle. I asked her why she did what she did and she said she just wanted to do it, there's no other explanation and nor is she going to try to be holier than thou and say how she had to change the world and that...but yes it definitely has changed the way she looks at life. She's at home most of the time now looking after her baby girl. And in a few years' time she wants to pick up her house designing from where she left it.
A household is most happy when each of it's member is doing what they wish to do in life and when the others can recognize this need of self growth and cooperate. One should take one's responsibilities seriously but I guess that happens automatically when you have a family.