Well to be honest i also wanted my girl to meet me in a hotel room or any other place where there is some privacy... I cant meet her at her or my home, and i cant stand it when someone stares at me [cuz i m shy :p] and obviously no nice guy will want ppl to stare at her girl, ek ladka ladki akele restaurant ya koi aur jaga dikhein tou koi achi nazar se nahi dekhta. So how the hell will i feel when i'll be with my girl and almost everyone in the restaurant will be staring at us. So the idea of meeting at a hotel room is better. maybe thats y he is insisting.
Do what you think is right, if he is a nice guy and you trust him then its ok. If you dont trust him then its better not to take any risk. This is a case where no one can help you out. Cuz no one knows wht kinda guy he is.. All i wanna say is that not every guy is bad. A nice and decent guy can also ask his girl to meet him in a hotel room.