^Apparently not for Arabs
:s elaborate plz...
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^means the multiple no of wives every arab has
Re: Hotel room
Bottom line: Why in a hotel room? Privacy can be found in other places as well. And what is the definition of privacy here? Does the guy want to be in a place where there are NO WITNESSES around? Is that the type of privacy he wants? If so......I would be very wary.
One can have a private discussion in a booth at a restaurant or cafe or even sitting on a bench in the mall. Most people in a public setting mind their own business and are not interested in hearing the conversation taking place between two people. Generally, people will give you** privacy** in a public setting and leave two people well alone.
And if a guy wants to be somewhere where there are no witnesses....that's fishy. Other means of having a private discussion include use of telephone, email, etc.
I'm normally not a regular poster in this section but need some help...
I was having a discussiion with my best friend about this and would like to know your views...
If a guy asked you to a hotel room, insistd that there would be no funny buisness and all talk..... does it nessiceraly mean he wants to have sex with you?
if yes..... why?
if no whyy?
annndddddddd I want mens point of view on this too!!
DUH!
There would be no funny business?
and ALL Talk?
I wonder what this guy wants to talk about? Why can't you and your girl friend figure it out - on WHAT he wants to talk about in the first place?
I mean - when he says no funny business - I never thought sex to be a funny business! - SO THERE ! HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX cause it ain't funny.
hahahahhahahahahahaahahahahahahahhaahahh - seems like your friend is looking for it too! to dwell in to this question.
Well to be honest i also wanted my girl to meet me in a hotel room or any other place where there is some privacy... I cant meet her at her or my home, and i cant stand it when someone stares at me [cuz i m shy :p] and obviously no nice guy will want ppl to stare at her girl, ek ladka ladki akele restaurant ya koi aur jaga dikhein tou koi achi nazar se nahi dekhta. So how the hell will i feel when i'll be with my girl and almost everyone in the restaurant will be staring at us. So the idea of meeting at a hotel room is better. maybe thats y he is insisting.
Do what you think is right, if he is a nice guy and you trust him then its ok. If you dont trust him then its better not to take any risk. This is a case where no one can help you out. Cuz no one knows wht kinda guy he is.. All i wanna say is that not every guy is bad. A nice and decent guy can also ask his girl to meet him in a hotel room.
well said… its their right to ask online, when they cannot ask such questions from their family members..
An online forum basically serves such purposes for teenagers especially…
Everyone here tends to become smart by extracting extra stuff out of nothing
Do u use same methods or its just an effect of porn movies?
Well to be honest i also wanted my girl to meet me in a hotel room or any other place where there is some privacy... I cant meet her at her or my home, and i cant stand it when someone stares at me [cuz i m shy :p] and obviously no nice guy will want ppl to stare at her girl, ek ladka ladki akele restaurant ya koi aur jaga dikhein tou koi achi nazar se nahi dekhta. So how the hell will i feel when i'll be with my girl and almost everyone in the restaurant will be staring at us. So the idea of meeting at a hotel room is better. maybe thats y he is insisting.
Do what you think is right, if he is a nice guy and you trust him then its ok. If you dont trust him then its better not to take any risk. This is a case where no one can help you out. Cuz no one knows wht kinda guy he is.. All i wanna say is that not every guy is bad. A nice and decent guy can also ask his girl to meet him in a hotel room.
GOSH!
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Who's multi nick are you?
If he wants to talk - he can do that in a car, in a resturant, in a park. Anywhere there is not a bed present.
In a Park, restaurant or car!!! Wow, do u seriously want 100's of ppl to stare at u and ur girl and invade ur privacy. And yea about car, its not something less than a hotel room these days huh.
GOSH!
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Who's multi nick are you?
wht ya mean by who's multi nick :s.. I hope you dont mean that i already have a account here. and this is a fake one or something. If yea think so, then your wrong. and i dont need to prove it. I didn't know new members are welcomed like this on GS. PEACE!
Bottom line: Why in a hotel room? Privacy can be found in other places as well. And what is the definition of privacy here? Does the guy want to be in a place where there are NO WITNESSES around? Is that the type of privacy he wants? If so......I would be very wary.
One can have a private discussion in a booth at a restaurant or cafe or even sitting on a bench in the mall. Most people in a public setting mind their own business and are not interested in hearing the conversation taking place between two people. Generally, people will give you** privacy** in a public setting and leave two people well alone.
And if a guy wants to be somewhere where there are no witnesses....that's fishy. Other means of having a private discussion include use of telephone, email, etc.
email, phone can not replace face to face discussions.
and privacy issues usually are not from random strangers, but from ppl of community and khandan seeing you with someone.
yeh my first date was 2 girls & 3 guys.. it was pretty creepy .. 
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A guy doesn't want people staring at his girl..but he's okay with all the eyes rolling and smirks when she enters the room?
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^ may be he can wear Abaya 
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A guy doesn't want people staring at his girl..but he's okay with all the eyes rolling and smirks when she enters the room?
do people stand around in corridos waiting tosmirk at a girl getting in a hotel room? I mean how do random bystanders (not that bystanders just hang around in hotel corridors) know that its not her room, or she is not there with her husband or whatever.
I think the guy looking left and right before letting her in and the girl’s obvious nervousness give it away
not that I know of any incident, I am just guessing
unless the guy is in the room already and the girl just goes over there.
again, as someone who travels a lot, and in some years actually spent more time in hotels than at home…I do nto recall ppl just hanging out for no reason in the hotel corridors, if they are in corridors they are going to their room or coming from theri room to go elsewhere.
^ these two boys up there are making up their own stories.
too much imagination flowing 
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LOL…I do not know whether to cry, laugh, be embarrased, shreek in absolute terror or whaatt!!
ok where to start?
First of all i’m no naive kid neither am i dim witted thank you very much! Alhamdulillah I have a mind and use it to its full ability!
**IF **you had read my original question it simply stemmed off a discussion I had with one of my friends and thought to see if our opinion matched yours…Thank you aisha (poisen ivy) for sticking up for me!
i’m quite sad now and feel totally insulted 
A guy doesn't want people staring at his girl..but he's okay with all the eyes rolling and smirks when she enters the room?
But there's no better place i can think of except for a hotel. And yea u r rite. I never thought about that, besides that, main tou kabhi hotel main ghussa tak nahi. hehe. mujhe nahi pata wahan kesa mahaul hoga.. Wesay sabh apne rooms main hote hain i guess, bahir nahi baethey hote yea dekhne k liye k kon kis room main ja aa raha hai. Phir bhi cuz i dont know anything about hotels. tou app ki baat sahi hi hai hogi.
Wesay phir app hi bataein milne ko kahan milein. koi hai esi dhang ki jaga jahan chen se baeth ker baat ker sakein. mujhe nahi lagta koi hai.