I’m normally not a regular poster in this section but need some help…
I was having a discussiion with my best friend about this and would like to know your views…
If a guy asked you to a hotel room, insistd that there would be no funny buisness and all talk… does it nessiceraly mean he wants to have sex with you?
if yes… why?
if no whyy?
annndddddddd I want mens point of view on this too!!
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LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL. ** Look..................the guy must think that the girl is stupid. Or he assumes she is of low intelligence.
Regardless of what the guy says, proposes, or assumes..............why doesn't the girl use her OWN COMMON SENSE?????????????
Out of all the places in the world (restaurant, park, building, home, mall)......why does the meeting have to take place in a hotel room? Why can't it take place in the hotel lounge? hotel cafeteria? hotel reception** area**?
God forbid.......what if the guy tries to force himself on her???? Will there be any witnesses to the rape besides the two of them? NO!!!!!!!!!! How will she prove her innocence?????
And even if nothing "funny" happens between them in the hotel room.......what if word gets around that they were in a hotel room together? And you know vicious gossip can be. What if people spread rumors that they both were getting it on in the hotel room??????????? Even if the two of them are completely innocent...............when rumors get around, it's hard to prove innocence.
Bottom line: There are many places where two people can MEET AND TALK besides a hotel room. Also, you can't control how other people think or act..........but you do have some control over managing your OWN SAFETY AND REPUTATION.
depending on the situation it could be a privacy issue as well. in a restaurant or lobby you can be seen together, you cant be at her house your house, being together in some secluded area gets you the weath of cops...in a room you can not be seen together.
The guy probably just wants you to sing him a lullaby and put him to sleep. People have very dirty minds on this forum!
Sumo.....
This may sound odd......but at least if the guy wants to screw around....that's **understandable **because many young guys are horny like that. I mean it's SICK. And it's MESSED UP. And it's SELFISH and DECEPTIVE. But, it's understandable in the sense that like many other guys he's thinking with his...um....lower head.
BUT........to get the girl to SING HIM A LULLABY???????? That's just CREEEEEEPY! I mean it's better/safer/less sinful than the other...ahem...alternative.
But NEVERTHELESS............CREEEPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL.
why would u ever ask such a question when u hav clear doubts abt others motives.whenever u see red flag be warned.don't come on GS to ask silly questions.
but if u still wanna hav a trip to that room arrange some security :)