TLK,
One also has to consider culture as well. In desi culture…to be in a guy’s room…with other people is not so bad. Or if the door to the room is open is alright as well. Even if nothing were to happen between the two…you know how gossip travels. And in one of my previous posts on this thread…I wrote that even if the two parties are just friends and no physical intimacy takes place between them…it’s harder to prove innocence if words gets out that they were in such a situation. Since our culture is more conservative…girls have to be more careful.
And yes, I know that the poster never mentioned whehter her friend was desi or non-desi. But if she’s desi…she has to be more careful.
I’m not saying that something will definitely happen between the two. It’s not unusual for something not to happen. But…isn’t it better to be safe than sorry…even in regards to reputation? If the girl wants to go meet with him in a hotel room, then fine. But if the guy wants a private place to talk…then there are other options available that can ensure greater privacy and also safety.