Hope for single ladies

[Reha]

Re: Hope for single ladies

@lafuriaroja

Yes the world is harsh, in reality, the better looking you are the better chance you have of finding a good spouse. And yes girls should be proactiv, but there’s a lot of overweight girls out there, who have no excuse to be overweight other than they’re not willing to put the effort in to exercise and eat well, fine. They might even accept that because of this they’re not going to find what they might consider a good catch and have to compromise on a lot of aspects. Where society and men come into play is when an overweight guy can demand that he wants a beautiful, slim girl and he gets it. Or a dark as night dude insists on having a fair beautiful girl and he gets that too. Again the reason for this… girls are taught to compromise, guys aren’t. The double standard is where the problem lies. If a girl is expected to go out there and be proactiv and do whatever she can to get a good catch, a guy should have to do that too. But there is immense pressure on girls in society vs. men. I mean I’m just talking about looks here but it applies to personality too, there are many guys out there who think girls shouldn’t be too smart or shouldn’t be involved in finances or whatever.

The double standard is there. Now what?

The stereotypes are there too. Now what?

He should have to work just as hard but he doesn’t have to. Now what?

Are these issues going anywhere anytime soon? Nope.

Who’s getting hurt by all of this? Men or women?

Do I have the time to sit around and wait for a revolution? Nope.

If women want something…they need to learn how to go and get it.

Take control ladies.