Re: Hope for single ladies
Not at all. That’s actually quite extreme and I am not sure why we only speak in extremes when these topics come up.
But do what you can…make yourself a desirable candidate…is mein izzat kam nahin hoti hai kisi ki.
Work out, take care of yourself, look good, put your best foot forward, show maturity, make an effort…don’t expect someone who barely knows you to marry you for your “inner beauty” because they have no idea of it yet.
These ideas are not your run of the mill stuff where you will hear things like “its okay, you’ll find someone” or “screw him…he was a jerk anyway” or “everything is going wrong because he’s so insecure”. I don’t do that because it keeps girls delusional. Self reflection is good…is there something you can fix? Yes? Well then let’s do it.
We need to let go of the “bichari” attitude.