Re: Hope for single ladies
LOL…that’s I guess part of the problem.
I believe in order to get a good catch, you have to be a good catch.
It may sound harsh, mean and definitely not the stuff fairy tales are made of…but its they we practically work. Every guy gets evaluated based on things we find important for men to have…so what is wrong with the same being done for a woman? Why is it poor me then? Why blame society? Why would you want to be helpless?
You should work on your appearance for yourself…but please don’t think that appearance doesn’t play a part when you’re looking for a future husband. It does. Your appearance, your attitude, your maturity, all of it does.
And I have been through this myself…for years and years and years. I didn’t just get lucky and nothing just sort of “happened” to me.
You have two choices…
You either blame something else…like society, our culture, men, etc.
Or
You do something about it.
so what do you suggest someone who keeps getting rejected for being too dark, or too big a nose, or simply being unattractive do? Should they get plastic surgery and bleach their skin to make themselves into someone society will accept?