Re: Hope for single ladies
I’ll be honest. The condescending scolding you see on forums like this from women who are married and women who are older to those who are younger and single - that’s where the source of the depression is. If the community was more encouraging and supportive, then there wouldn’t be depressed girls like the one OP described. And they do exist. It’s not just PCG. You can x me out of the equation, I’m prolly an aberration anyway. I’ve seen girls like what OP describes at parties, and it’s sad. And honestly, it’s the women in the community that have made them feel bad about themselves. Matchmakers wont help you once you’re past 30, they start turning their noses up and passing comments. People in the community wont be supportive either, and I’ve seen very few people actually talking about so and so or so and so girl that is working or training and “let’s help her find a guy, she’s always working” or “she’s studying, while she is studying, let’s help her find a groom”. There is like barey any talk like that. No one is open about these things. I find that aunties gossip and talk to each other quietly and find women for their sons, or a lot of guys are just finding girls on their own these days too while they’re in school or amongst their social circles.
Very well said! Some people here perfectly represent that desi aunty mentality. They should actually do some Khuda ka khauff that just because they got lucky and had their chances doesnt give them the right to look down upon others.