Re: Hope for single ladies
If a younger girl is getting a lot of proposals, then she is in a position to negotiate. But as she ages and the number of proposals dwindle, the power of negotiation also dwindles. The point I am making is, if you are not ready for marriage, then by all means, wait. But if education is a top priority, it will be easier for her to find a guy/family that support her education when she is younger than when she is older.
Now as for the predictability of things to come, mature people deal with them as they come. If one lacks that maturity, then they lack the maturity for marriage. Try to find guy who is sincere and true to his word, but also know that no matter what anyone promises, things are liable to change.