Re: honesty needed. upset,.
They may have a role but their role is nowhere near as large as Nadz’s role in the entire ghastly debacle. When giving advice, most people do so based on the information they have available to them, which is what the asker has told them and which may or may not be the entire story. The asker is the only person who knows for certain what the specific scenario is. If Nadz misrepresented the situation and then proceeded to follow advice that was not geared toward her exact situation, knowing completely well that she had misrepresented things and that her situation was not as she had presented it, then, quite frankly, she is entirely to blame for any damage that may have resulted.
No, it didn’t. Nadz’s inability to discern reality from her own, rather skewed, point of view and her foolish decision to blindly follow advice without considering whether it was actually appropriate for her situation is what destroyed her relationship.