Re: honesty needed. upset,.
Zafra does have a point here.
Nadz used to get a lot of support in the beginning. She would at times open a few threads in a row asking what she should do now (she would literally follow the advice given to her and then open a thread asking how to preceed next).
She would only open threads to get sympathy and if needed she would add details, which werent unimportant, to get people on her side telliug her she wasnt wrong. Hearing that would give her a boost and that was obvious from her threads.
I even remember her once saying that her husband hit her, and she would keep changing what exactly happened and how she couldnt remember it clearly anymore.
Everyone questioning it and being critical about that got a hard time from the posters.
And later nadz herself admitted it never happened.
It was later that people noticed how nadz would add grand details as soon as people didnt support her right away, and only then did people start telling her what they do now.
So the people who partly used to take her side do have a role in this.