honesty needed. upset,.:/

[Zafra]

Re: honesty needed. upset,.

@khattichic

I don’t agree with the notion that the women/girls here on GS have a hand in enabling Nadz. I wasn’t active on GS when before nadz got married, but from what I’ve seen and heard, PLENTY of people/girls/old time posters here told her over and over again NOT to marry him based on the differences that were already apparent. But in true Nadz fashion, she dismissed/brushed off the warnings and plowed ahead. And for the 3 years I’ve been here, I’ve never seen blind support for Nadz.

She’s been told from day one that she needs to think clearly, change her actions and perceptions, get a grip etc etc…

Like the saying goes, taali do haat say bajthi hai, aik se nahin..it is totally irresponsible to ignore Nadz’ husbands role in all this.

Neither of them have any sense or ability to plan, manage conflicts and work through their differences

Nope she wasn’t. I was warned by moderators about my comments in Nadz’s threads. People would support her and tell her she was right.