Re: honesty needed. upset,.
You don’t get it and because you don’t get it…you will never ever be rid of these issues.
Your MIL being nice or bad is IRRELEVANT. You need to learn some self control and understand what IS in your control: your mouth and actions.
What are you so worried about? You think your MIL will say something to him one day and he’ll leave you? What exactly has you soooo afraid of her words…after several years of marriage and two kids? Who cares? Let her sit with him…sooner or later…he WILL have to come to YOUR room.
You literally serve your husband to your MIL in a silver platter and then complain about it.
Be smart.