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ok ok I know this is a pakistani site but i want to know honestly - do you guys believe in dating before marriage and dont discuss or go on religion topic please because this is just a yes and or no question and if u say yes… have u ever dated someone before?? :confused:

I just was curious because noone ever states boyfriend or girlfriend on gupistan they always say “special friend”.. lol and if thats the case than lol a good friend of mine from junior year high school when I was 16-17 and me were very close but we lost contact and a month or 2 back we met up again and now he is my i guess “special friend” lol.. and it’s funny because he thinks gupistan is a time waste and i shouldnt waste my time- and duh its gupshup- but im saying how do i convince he that im addicted !!!

yea i didnt tell anyone of my friends that i met him again and we kept a secret for about a month or 2 and lol everyone kept thinken im wit this other boy jamal all the time but i wasnt- i was with my my special friend…

SO GS HELP OUT>>

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dating’s wrong, simple as that :halo:

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we are not dating pagal lol.. lydia yaar :(… understand yaar hes jus a “special friend”

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yet everyone does it

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Indeed chupkese.. lol.. :hug: im glad you understand but umm.. how do i convince him yaar ??

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lol “special friend” :rotfl:

Well ur sneaking around to be with him… thats not a good thing.. and no i dontbelieve in dating before marriage one, because Allah has forbidden it.. two (not that number 1 is not enuff, but the reason for # 1), dating is too much headache and trouble and complication that is not worth it..

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just because everyone does it , it doesn’t mean it’s right you know… hate the sin, not the sinner :slight_smile:

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tell him exactly that..ur addicted…n u cant just stop. uve been on it for a while…n u cant just quit coz he thinks its a waste of time..i dont think its a waste of time…its truely entertaining..when ur bored :stuck_out_tongue: :smiley:

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i never said it was right. i said YET everyone does it. nowhere did i say…its right to date

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lol.. umm <ALLAH=Religion> which a lot is forbidden - but still done.. SARA NO RELIGION please :hug:

And i have known him for 4 years actually more and he has never done anything to hurt me always by myside and umm lol. i think i give him a headache and trouble and complications he treats me like a queen… especially last two months while i was having issues with my former best friends he was there to help me through.. :slight_smile:
he cares for me a lot.. indeed “special friend”

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yea but he's like u cant be addicted
and tells me that its wasting a valuable lifetime portion of my life :'(

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princess, dont listen to anyone, go ahead and do what you think is right, afterall thats how one learns.

cheers, and luck

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well if u thot it was wasting ur life…then u wouldnt be on it..now would u. plus u have friends on here. not like ur sitting on the comp playing games..rite? ur talkin to ur friends. thast like saying…dont talk to on the phone…coz its wasting ur life. same diff rite?

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shukriya danial.. but i think for the past two months since i am spending a lot of time wit him my friends are changing attituudes toward me. :( but oh well to win his love i would give up 20000000 billion fake friends

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i told him to come check wat u wrote i hope it works maybe he will join now :slight_smile:

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hey dude, keep balance, if you give into it too much, you will never be happy.
plus in order to have a healthy relationship, you have to give him some breathing room as well,

ps: your birthday is one day after mine :smiley:

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n no dont worry guys his name wont be playa anything lol.. i will not let that happen.. and no he isnt a fake gangster and no he doesnt try to be what hes not- the sad part is he is in the moving process back to nj from cali and will be gone monday for about a week to be moving n jus graduated from UCLA with bachelors in engineering :) n my mommy says hes a handsome guy wt decency lol i introduced her as hs friend lol but 2 months everyday of meetin n not meeting nemore its gonna b weird

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oooo lol.. we’ll celebrate together lol.. and umm healthy relationship :eek: he’s jus a special friend lol

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prolly not…but maybe he’ll understand y ur on it :blush:

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lol true-