Re: Honest opinions needed
well u did get reasonable advice if u take it positively. we all felt that u don't like ur khalas n mamu n thus acted so strongly to something that wasn't really big. yes i hav kids n i know how stressful it can be. but when i'm around family even at friend's house i let go. i let others hold n take care of my baby so i could hav some nice time too. fact is i don't keep them in my lap whole time but leave them in their stroller, car seat or with someone.
now i'll giv u my eaxample. my baby is 9 months old. we were invited to a friend's house this Sat. there were 5 other families invited too.everyone was holding n playing with the baby but she cried for me so they kept returning her to me. we left at 12pm coz she was over-tired n cried constantly. my others still wanted to stay coz all kids were enjoying. even at midnight everyone said same thing to me"itni jaldi ja rahi ho?" (n they all hav kids). so i just said" sorry yar. ager ab aur dair ki tu ye sari raat roti rehay gee." then i hugged everyone n we left.
first time moms r usually very protective but letting go n relaxing will make things easy for u.