Hmmm, you raise a good point, I wonder the same. Some men want everything their way or no way. Communication does not help - then what do you do?
best way, not to argue.. let the situation calm down a bit and then try explaining ur point of view rationally.
We women become kinda monkey like and make no sense when we're in an argumet (i know i do, and ive worked very hard on to being normal.. lol)
The best way is to let the dust settle... and then talk rationally.
I think guys make sense most times... and it frustrates them that we argue for no reason. Yet we REALLY do believe we have a logical point.. the only down factor is, we involve emotion and then the guy doesnt think our view point is very logical. If only we kept emotion out of a debate, I reckon we'd win most times...
abhi se hi ausband ko tung kernay ka irada hai kia?
kuch apko sacrifice kerna parega aur kuch unko, hutdharmion ya choti choti baaton ko apni anaa ka masla bnanay se ye rishta mazboot nahi hota, toot jata hai, aik dusray ko samajhne me waqt to lagay ga, lekin waqt k sath sath aur siasat se hr aik ko handle kerna bhi khoob aa jaega apko.
aur haan! ye ajkal ki khawateen ki tarah asmanon jesi unchi farmaeshen na kerney beth jana jo us se poori bhi na ho sakein.
i didnt reallie understand what u were saying captain but like ive said earliar this isa reallie old thread and by the grace of Allah al mighty we have a very strong relationship MashAllah :)
...desi men still are not at that level on the ladder of evolution where they will consider their wives their equals and give importance to their views automatically.
As a proud and pure desi man, I find your comments racist and extremely offensive. I assume you are desi yourself who has forgotten his roots, you should be ashamed of yourself for trashing our ancestors like this.
You may still be living in a cave but world has changed a lot, I suggest you come out and see the new world. ...
As for this young girl's situation, first few years of marriage are always like this, doesn't matter you are desi or gora. It's no one's fault. Things get better once you adopt to each other and start taking this relationship as commitment.
..kuch nahi..i like the way you think… need more men like that around …
