FOBs marrying ABCDs

meea · April 2, 2006, 7:46am

Re: FOBs marrying ABCDs

Sara516:

I don’t think guys from pak are bad or anything, rahter its more of who I feel I’d get along better with and have more of an understanding with and I don’t think I could have that wiht someone who was born n raised in pakistan, i dont think i could get along with anybody from here

I don’t want to move into an already-established home, **have to constantly be on guard about the way I behave with my in-laws. I don’t thinK I could ever consider a place where I have to cover up all the time and adapt to someone else’s lifestyle, my own home; i’d feel like a guest, and who wants to feel like that? I dn’t think I could get along with many people here :halo: where the favorite hobby is backbiting, quietly smiling and nodding and taking every stupid comment that comes your way out of some respect for elders who don’t respect you one bit. ** And in the case i “import” a guy, i don’t want to deal with the headache of immigration and status and always be worried abt something or other. Plus it comes down to what Larki and Maddy said, the gender roles in West are different than in Pakistan.

N paris, ure different, ure a strait up Pakistani larki who jus happened to be born blonde n French

Thats exactly what im thinking and thats what scares me....!