Re: HIV
IVF is too expensive for us. Amma jee is telling me and hubby ke agar bacha nahi hua, she's finding another wife. Hubby, imbecile he is, doesn't want to tell his parents because they'll think he had an affair and would disown him.
Bottom line: Is it moral for me to pick my health over my husband if it came down the two choices only?
Forget it if the wife wants kids... this is not a selfish move. If the woman contracts HIV, there is a 25% chance of the baby contacting it during natural birth, and 1% chance if Cesarian section is done.
I am really sorry for parents that are not there for their kids when they need'em. Please if you know this guy, tell him to be brave and steadfast. If he has done nothing wrong then he has nothing to fear regardless of who thinks what. His focus/target (qiblah) should be the Truth, and doing the Right thing.