Hitting on your man

A question for the girls. You go to a restaurant with your bf/husband and a very pretty hostess attend you. During the course of dinner she is clearly hitting on your man. Showing her charms and smooth talking in front of you.

What will be your reaction? Will you try to intervene or just sit back and enjoy the show? Also suggest the most appropriate behavior for this situation.

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3some?

I’ll just enjoy the show :). And watch him suffer, on keeping his girl(me) happy while getting excited that someone other then his girl just hit on him :omg:. Its all about being spontaneous anyway, so take this opportunity:mehr:

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i wouldn't be with a man unless i trusted him completely, and if i do trust him, then i shouldn't and wouldn't have a problem with the waitress hitting on him. i would probably just laugh about it.

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She can do whatever she wants...Im not with a guy who slips every time a waitress bats an eyelash. I'll watch her take her best shot and then walk out WITH him.

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I think waitresses may try to be friendly in order to get a better tip sometimes, but if a girl is blatantly smooth talking I believe I'd say something. Not because I dont trust my husband, as I wouldnt be married to someone I dont trust. Rather, I think its important to say something so the waitress will think twice before doing that with any future customer. It's simply not the type of service I look for at a restaurant. I'd be polite but firm in whatever I choose to say to get the point across.

I would laugh it off and enjoy the show.

Lol!

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i would kick some butt be it his or hers, whichever comes first :snooty:

p.s-im kidding :cb:

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I think a situation like this will only hold entertainment value and nothing else .. so if someone else is trying to flirt with your partner , order some popcorn and enjoy the drama ... :@:

Okay now what would you do if your wife was sitting right next to you - and the hostress is flirting with you?

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I'd be amused.

Unless he was flirting back. Then I would lay the smack down.

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Summary of the posts:

“MEOW”

:hehe:

I would react similarly. If she was humouring him, I would be amused. If he reciprocated he better be careful:whistling

Well our man ego always appreciate a massage. So I would wait for my wife to say something or I’ll just enjoy the flirting. Either way we like to be wanted :smiley:

:chai:

"Server, would you like his number?"

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I would give her a dirty look and unleash my snoty kids at him - saying "daddy I need to go potty now"

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^ :D @ SUP and njgal

I would find it amusing so long as he is not flirting back. Can't help it if your man looks good.. right?

One thing that I have noticed is that women love to compete with other women. They dont care if they guy is with a girl or not....they will still try to get his attention.

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OMG the best is when we go to desi weddings. All these aunties eye hubby for their daughters, cuz he's handsome and a tall drink of water, mashAllah. I love it. :D

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Guy is the one being hit on... he need to discourage waitress, CLEARLY!!!!
And he needs to build confidence over the time with his woman.