His sister

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Re: His sister

@SaadiaB

I am sure cham was nice to the potential sis in law, but I dont see any effort from her side to make the relationship a go! Even though she was elder, she should have taken it in her hands as a mature and elder person to make it pleasent for Cham, as it was kind of an akward position.
All those who are suggesting that something might be wrong with Cham attitude dont see the other side of it, I believe in honesty and if Cham believed that she was not well treated than no harm in telling the bro that she felt somehow neglected by the sister or not enough effort was made from / both sides.
As when this relationship will get serious/towards marriage, honesty is the best thing in a relationship and she will encounter such more events and at least what she can expect is some moral support from her husband (to be).

it was the first meeting… u gotta give the SIL some credit… for goodness sakes i remember when i met my SIL the 3rd time.. i even forgot her name!!

sometimes, its best not to think TOO much about the other persons actions. Noone is saying there is something wrong with Cham’s attitude.. all we are saying is not to assume anything negative about the SIL before even talking to her properly… sometimes it does take about 3-4 conversations to get to know someone.. how does honesty and trust come into this neways?